This book has been a many levelled therapy session. As I read, I examine my parenting, the parenting I received, and the parenting of my grandchildren. I cringed a little, however, as I recognized the learning process involved in family relationships. Through examples, offering phrases, and reading the results of unhelpful parental behaviours, I began to clarify my responsibilities to myself as a person, and to my family, as mother and grandmother. Wayne has been down to earth, honest, loving, and very brave to have shared in this way. Everyone can benefit from these profound lessons in parenting, and the learning process leading to raising a well balanced human being. The bonus is balancing yourself along the way.